Last month i fingered my girlfriend..it was her first time. And she also gave me a handjob.. i am 90% sure i did not have any cm on my finger..i did not insert my finger completely either..but for the past month she has been experiencin stomachache, backache,headache,cramps and todau was the day she would get her period..but instead a white fluid is coming out.. we both are very scared..we dont know if it is a pregnancy or infection..help us please