I am on birth control and yes my fiance and i do have sex without him being protected but not very often. 12 days before my next period i woke up with pain in my lower abandon and the day after i woke up with that same pain the the third or 10 days til my next period i started to find blood when i wipe but not in my pants! And now its day three of only finding blood when i wipe and yes all three days i have been cramping, the 10 day of my cycle i think i missed taking my pill along with we had sex and he ended up finishing anal style and i think i made the mistake of wiping from back to front but unsure of anything ....ya! Does anyone know whats going on?