I'm Jayne , divorced last August, suffered emotional and mental abuse, from my controlling, non comunative husband. He completely destroyed me inside, and last October my counsellor helped to mend me, I started to heal.....My ex, threw my things away. He only did what he wanted to do and never ever cared about my thoughts and feelings....he was the most selfish person I have ever met, but he needed me as he had no idea how to solve problems, I felt used and he regularly picked me up emotionally and dropped me. He would pay attention to me only when he wanted sex....years into the marriage I worked this out and detactched myself emotionally from him☹️