I have not dated anyone for 15 years. Yes...because of an absolutely horrific relationship back then. I have started to talk to a very nice man on a Senior Dating Site. We have talked on the phone numerous times...and I'm feeling quite comfortable with him. He wants to meet me when it's comfortable for me. It will be 5 weeks since we started corresponding and decided we would meet for dinner in the next few weeks. To be totally honest, I'm scared to death! I am not one to sleep with a man until I feel very comfortable with him and the feeling is mutual. That will probably be months down the line anyway... My question is this. What does a woman my age do when it comes to "grooming" your pubic area? I have lost a lot of hair in that area since menopause, and the rest is grey and flattened out! What is a woman to do??? I was young and so pretty when I was in my 50's...but now I feel worse and this question about grooming is quite embarrassing! PLEASE, how do I groom and what do I do? Please be specific! Thank You!!!