My daughter is almost 12 and was born with CDH. She has had 14 surgeries and several therapies. She is in counseling now as there has been a divorce. She had wanted to cut herself when the judge returned her to the abusive home we left. Custody issues now as I am trying to get her back with me. My x will try to say she has issues and they are my fault. How do I k ol what was caused from her chronic health condition and what was from her living back in that environment? She is currently seeing a counselor