I've always been able to maintain my weight until now. I'm gaining weight so easily, and i dont even bother to go out, at all, dress up, no makeup, no hairstyle, nothing. I feel like a growse person. And i look like one too. I feel like if im never gonna look nice again. I have no life and it doesn't look like if im ever gonna get the life I had back. I live with pain 24/7 now, and i feel like i have no life or future left. Menopause changed everything for me, and so did the car accident. But I'm not even close to being ready to give up. or to die. I want to live, and be happy with the way i look and feel. Please help me if you can. Please.