I found lube in the bathroom and ever since I watch the bottle to see how often it moves which is like everyday and it drives me nuts !! He works nights we hardly ever see each other only on the weekends. When I want sex he says no he’s to tired and it’s his excuse every time! Even though he jerks idc right after I ask for it.. I brought it up one night asking why he never wants sex he says I turn it into a chore for him like doing the dishes like wtf?! We have sex like once every 7 months and asking once in that time frame I get rejected. I just feel hurt any opinion on this? Is it normal for men to hide that they jerk off in the bathroom and not talk about it when asked about it? We just got married 5 months ago I need help!