I had a break out for first time in the summer. I told my partner and he was tested negative. i have hsv1 genital. Now he won't touch me below the waist. We use condoms during sex but he won't even touch my vagina. Can he catch the virus by using his hands. What is the actual percentage if he does oral without protection. Assuming I have no break out? Does the risk of me transmitting go down over the years. Is oral hsv less contagious then genital? If you have oral hsv1 when is the actual risk in spreading it with normal lip to lip kissing