I had an outbreak in the summer. My partner tested negative. We still have sex but use condoms. He won't touch me below the waist. Can he get my hsv1 from fingering my vagina? What is the actual % risk to him performing oral without protection? Does my risk of spreading go down over years without an out break? If someone has hsv1 oral what is the risk of normal lip to lip kissing? Seems people freak out more about genital, but what about oral hsv and kissing? If I take suppressive therapy, what is the % of spreading during unprotected intercorse or oral sex. Assuming there is no active out break. If I climax, how long is the viris alive after my fluids are secreated through climax?