I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost two years, and our emotional bond is stronger than ever. But when it comes to sex, I feel like we’re growing apart. He only ever wants anal sex (he’ll do vaginal, but treats it like a chore), and lately he has REALLY pushed for us to have a threesome. He made a comment a while back, too, that I’m unusually dry down there, “like an older woman” (I’m 21). It makes me feel inadequate, like I’m not enough. He compliments my body a lot but when it comes to GETTING intimate I feel super insecure. Are these signs he’s not into me, or is this just hom being “frisky” and wanted to try unusual things?