All was well with my boyfriend of close to a year and a half. We loved each other, he had dreams that we were trying to fulfill one by one. My daughter saw him as a step father. All was well. And all of a sudden the day before mother's day he seemed perfectly fine and sweet to me when I got in from work and then he just spiralled down talking about his life, he isn't where he should be by now, and then he didnt want me to touch him....I tried to kiss him he blew air in my face..yelled at me and just demanded to sleep. I assumed he was drinking. I told him that we have a property to view the next day and he yelled at me saying that we will not be moving in together and its done. I have been lost...confused..my daughter asked him to fix it he sent her a cryptic message that something is wrong with him and no one can help him. He sort of has a legal citizenship issue that I wonder if that is what is bothering him. He spoke about being homesick (but we had plans to go to his country next year). Over the weekend despite my daughter pleading to fix it and she will miss his extended family he has just apologized to her and said nothing further. I have been on a mental breakdown, lost, confused, I know his cousin wasn't a fan of us because he was single and theres always that misery loves company mess. But it MAKES NO SENSE..like aside from a few little arguments everything was FINE....
I don't know if he started selling drugs...or using drugs...he has been saying wierd things like he wants to "Make money and blow money..and club"....
I cry off and on. This man knew that my self and my daughter came out of an emotional abusive relationship and promised us he wouldn't hurt us...now I am at a loss...ladies...help
(BTW...I know my mental state is out of whack and I have already made an appointment with a therapist...)