I am thirteen. I wonder how my mother, grandmother and every other female learns it all. Just recently a friend of mine shaved off her "womanhood" i was shocked back quite much. Is this society? Is that normal.The brazilian.A way of America or a trend to some girls? how do we learn it? will men make fun off bald or is it preffered? Another thing. birth control. Everyone says, "just ask your mother or guardian," How can we ask without being personally analyzed."thirteen is too young!"Im not giving you birthconrtrol!" you dont need it!Well, why? what if im ready. For the first time in this world young women and men are maturing at a faster rate. Shouldn't we be protected at this rate aswell? I know some middle school friends who "lost it" they could be lying but still,shouldn't they have the right? We are the first generation to speed up the maturing rate. Periods at 11. breasts at 10.Sex ed at my school is just a three hour waste. Yes, we all now what a labia is and yes, i know that sperm is what get's you pregnant. But i want to know why is anal sex wierd? or why does the period going over 8 days mean your sick? Or Is sex okay on your period? Or is it just gross to couples? i want to learn these things without being labeled "perversed" or "Slutty."