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Are you concerned about someone you know, even a current partner, who has had numerous sexual relationships in the past, but never seems happy or fulfilled? Yet they continue with their high rate of sexual activity, and you wonder if they are depressed or have an actual sexual disorder...even addiction?

Whereas some individuals may brag about number of sexual partners they've had, others are experiencing a troublesome condition known as “hypersexuality” that has plagued them with problematic relationships, poor health and overall dissatisfaction with life in general. Hypersexuality is defined as engaging in “high rates of sexual behavior”, and “although clinical studies have found an association between high rates of sexual behavior and a variety of mental and physical problems, there is less agreement on whether excessive sexual behavior should be a distinct disorder." (Source: 2006. Archives of Sexual Behavior).

How would you know if a potential dating partner has, or has a tendency towards, hypersexuality?

The 2006 study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found some correlates, or associations, among persons considered to have hypersexuality:

Hypersexuality in Women:

  • Early onset of intercourse, relationship instability, diverse sexual experiences including same-sex sexual partners, paraphilic interests (exhibitionism, voyeurism, masochism/sadism), and were more likely to have had an STD.
  • No difference based on sexual orientation.
  • Engaged in risky behaviors including tobacco smoking, substance abuse.
  • Increase in psychiatric co-morbidity.
  • History of sexual abuse for women.
  • Dissatisfaction with psychological health and with life in general.

Please note: the criteria provided are not predictors or causes; they are not necessarily "red flags" that a person is destined to have a sexual health problem. This list should be used to more fully understand sexual disorders, in hopes that individuals can seek treatment to improve their overall quality of life and health outcomes.

A definition is difficult to agree on among the researchers, as hypersexuality may be based on “total frequency of sexual outlets”, or “having daily orgasms for six consecutive months, which would identify the top 5-10 percent of the male population". Sexual outlets included: "intercourse with a regular partner, masturbation, protracted promiscuity, and paying for sex.” Researchers insisted that in addition to the above definitions, the person must also be experiencing “adverse psychosocial consequences”, a high frequency of sexual activity that is not causing problems may not be, well, problematic.

Hypersexuality in Men:

  • Sexual experiences started early and were frequent and diverse, including increased frequencies of same-sex sexual behavior, paying for sex, exhibitionism, voyeurism, and masochism/sadism.
  • Despite being highly sexually active, hypersexual men were less satisfied with their sexual life.
  • More likely to have had problems in current adult romantic relationships, and have had an STD (sexually transmitted disease).
  • No difference based on sexual orientation.
  • Engaged in a variety of risk behaviors, including smoking tobacco, heavy drinking, using illegal drugs, and gambling.
  • Reported relatively less satisfaction with physical health, psychological health, and with life in general.

Do you know anyone who exhibits these characteristics? Have they expressed concern to you, or sought treatment for this condition?

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HERWriter

Cool, I looked into this before but focused more on sexual addiction I think. From what I read before, this is being considered for the DSM 5. I think it would describe a lot of what's going on now and address people who don't necessarily have "sex addiction" but are not enjoying their high sex drives and are suffering from consequences of that (multiple sex partners, unhappiness, relationship issues, etc). Also, the current DSM doesn't even acknowledge sex addiction as a separate disorder, and I think this is a broader way to do that. Someone with sex addiction probably falls under the category of hypersexuality anyway.

I also think this could definitely be linked to depression. I bet if you looked at the cases of women and even men who have "hypersexuality," most of them probably have depression. I can actually speak from experience.

November 10, 2010 - 5:49pm
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