Families and friends provide about 80 percent of all full-time care for elderly loved ones. In pure numbers, 44 million American families are providing live-in caregiver or home care to a loved one.

As any mother can tell you, looking after someone else full-time can be an extremely draining emotionally and physically. With the amount of people aged 65 and over expected to quadruple in the next 30 years, it is reasonable to assume that more and more live-in caregivers will experience caregiver stress.

When you’re looking after someone else’s needs on top of the needs of other family members and work, particularly when an elderly person’s needs change or increase as their mobility or abilities decrease, it’s easy to see how caregiver burnout happens.

The Facts about Caregiver Depression

It is estimated that about 20 percent of family caregivers suffer from caregiver depression. It is likely that this number is much higher.

In fact, nearly 60 percent of clients of California’s Caregiver Resource Centers show clinical signs of depression, and 41 percent of caregivers for spouses with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia experienced mild to severe depression up to three years after their spouse died. (Family Caregiver Alliance)

It is important to note, however, that caregiving itself does not cause caregiver depression and not everyone who is a caregiver will experience it. Caregiver burnout and caregiver stress happens when caregivers neglect their own need of support and respite. Anxiety, isolation, exhaustion and the guilt associated with having these feelings at all can take their toll.

Many in today’s society still view depression and asking for help as a sign of weakness. It is hard to pinpoint all the emotions and their physical impact on the rest of the body because each caregiver is different and each caregiving situation is different.

Symptoms of Caregiver Burnout

Beware of the following symptoms or a combination of symptoms, particularly if they persist for longer than two weeks in a row:

• Change in eating habits and resultant weight gain or weight loss
• Change in sleep patterns, either too much or not enough
• Feeling of fatigue that never goes away
• Loss of interest in people or doing activities that used to be enjoyable
• Becoming easily angered or irritated
• Headaches, digestive issues, or chronic pain that don’t respond to treatment

If you are experiencing any of these symptoms talk to your family physician.

To be of any use to the person you’re caring for, you need to make sure your needs are met as well. Reach out and ask for the help that is so readily available. You don’t have to do this alone.

Sources:

Caregiver Depression: A Silent Health Crisis. Family Caregiver Alliance national Center on Caregiving. Web. Jan 25, 2012. http://www.caregiver.org/jsp/content_node.jsp?nodeid=786

“What’s OK and What’s Not OK When You Are a Caregiver” by Cindy Laverty. Agingcare.com. Web. Jan 25, 2012.
http://www.agingcare.com/Articles/caregiver-stress-getting-help-149188.htm

“Time Management Strategies for Caregivers” by Carol Bradley Bursack. Agingcare.com. Web. Jan 25, 2012.
http://www.agingcare.com/Articles/Time-Management-Planning-Techniques-Caregivers-144932.htm

“Family Won’t Help With Caregiving? How to Change Their Mind” by Holly Whiteside. Agingcare.com. Web. Jan 25, 2012. http://www.agingcare.com/Articles/get-family-to-help-with-caring-for-elderly-mother-father-140855.htm

Elderly Caregiving: Choices, Challenges, and Resources for the Family. University of California, San Francisco Medical Center. Web. Jan 19, 2012. http://ucsfhr.ucsf.edu/index.php/assist/article/elderly-caregiving-choices-challenges-and-resources-for-the-family

Reviewed January 25, 2012
by Michele Blacksberg RN
Edited by Jody Smith