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Gloria In Her Own Words

 
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She answered every email I sent -- I saved every response. She made me feel special.

One night, we met for dinner in the Library at the Regency Hotel, where I love to sit and people-watch. That night, people were watching her. That night, she told me that what I am doing for people with chronic illnesses is the same as what she and her compatriots did for women forty years earlier. I could never, ever receive a bigger compliment from anybody.

Gloria is an amazing person. She's done so much. But it's what you don't know about that makes her most special. Because everybody is special to Gloria. Everybody. She is so beautiful, so kind, so giving -- and so brutally honest -- and when you talk to her, it's as if you're the only person on earth. I've rarely visited her when there wasn't someone staying at her house -- a young activist, an African women's leader, a struggling writer. I think she's friends with everyone she's ever met. Her heart is not only huge, but so very unique. I have never felt more unconditionally loved than I have by Gloria and David.

Gloria: In Her Own Words airs on HBO at 9 pm on August 15, with many re-runs if you miss the first showing. I hope you will watch it and get a glimpse of just how amazing she is. Sure, it's about the women's movement, no doubt. But it's also about how we ought to treat each other, the interest we ought to have in each other, the beauty that comes from meeting another human being.

Edited by Jody Smith

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Thank you Jennifer, I am not the lonely soul but a retired nurse that does know about the human heart that is why this article touched me the way it did,I heard about Gloria Steinem but not to the extent of how I wish I knew of her and the work that she did elegantly and passionately in her early days.
I in my early days thought I was Florence Nightingale and thought I could save the world,but soon learnt I could only do what I could and leave it at that It was a life lesson for me and it was ok. I worked in Nursing Homes most of my life and seen alot .I don't have HBO and these are the times I wish I did,Thank you so much Jennifer I live to hear of wonderful people like yourself and Gloria.I find we are here to make a difference some how.

August 15, 2011 - 4:39pm
(reply to willalee)

I bet you've made a difference in a lot of lives. Nursing, especially in a nursing home, is seriously tough work. You're right -- we are here to make a difference. It doesn't have to be big; just giving a scared patient a little hope is plenty.

I hear the documentary will be out on DVD eventually. It was wonderful. When it comes out, you should rent it. Gloria is my friend and I knew most of her story, but it was still great to see it all put together so well. Jennifer

August 16, 2011 - 3:48am

I do my best also to be there for others to show kindness and compassion for people who are reaching out for the human touch even just for a little conversation or in need of some help you would be very surprised how lonely and invisable people are to others. It is so sad that we live in a world where we think we don't have time for people like ourselves and that maybe just maybe that could be us one day.
I am a people watcher and I have always been in tune with the way human nature is and I have learned through many others how we all can be good/bad towards each other,what makes us tick, and that a little kindness and time can really make a world of difference for a lonely soul.

August 15, 2011 - 10:25am
(reply to willalee)

Willalee, as a person with two chronic health illnesses which are invisible to all the world except those who know me well enough to see the pain in my eyes, I do understand. And you've hit on what's most remarkable about Gloria Steinem, as well. Regardless of the fact that she's super-famous and a true living legend, she is charmed by everyone she meets, and nobody is invisible to her. In case you ever feel like the lonely soul you refer to, I hope you will feel free to message me. I'm not Gloria, but I'm a pretty good listener. Jennifer

August 15, 2011 - 11:04am
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