im 20, im in a relationship for about almost 4 years now ,we do have 2 kids together, put in a IUD after, have a high sex drive probably higher then his, but I never seem to be able to orgasm, I can do it on my own with my fingers water or toys, on the clit, but when my bf is proforming oral sex i feel like i wanna explode but the some times it just goes away or it feel like it out of reach i guess you can say, we have also try to do the g spot, again gotten where I wanna explode but i just cant seem to let my self go, is there any thing i can do to exprience an orgasm that my bf brang on?