So I have been overweight for about 3 years now. I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 years. He has never showed the slightest concern with my weight, he is always the one initiating sex, always hugging kissing touching. He is always supportive when I attempt to lose weight, evne though I always end up stopping. We had an issue about a year ago where for some reasons his best friend decided that he disliked me because of my weight and basically was telling my boyfriend he could do much bett, my boyfriend told me he could care less what anyone else thinks and he wanted to be with me. So now a year later yesterday he starts telling me out of nowhere that if i loved him i would lose weight for him because other people talk about him behind my back for being with me, and peoplw wont respect him because of me, i felt completey attacked. He kept saying since you wont do it for yourself do it for me. He knows I am unhappy with myself and want to lose weight but I always seem to fail or quit. Well I broke up with and moved out last night....Im just curious as to what anyone else thinks was I too quick in leaving? I just felt so hurt and attacked, and he kept saying he was attracted to me and loved me and begged me not to go but yet he wanted me to agree to lose weight so other people wouldnt make fun of him and so on. He said he wanted the girl he fell in love with...
im just looking for some other opinions...
thanks