i had a hysterectomy and a bladder sling done on jan.09. 5month later i have more trouble with incontinence. i feel that i cannot emty my bladder fully and i am always going to the bathroom. also it is painful when having sex. it feel like my husband is hitting my pelvic floor or maybe the bladder sling. never had this kind of pain before the surgery. is this common and should i have the sling taken out?