about 9 yrs now but jux decided to give it a try 2 months ago. We went to High school together and he has had this Big Crush on me, well we came back in contact alittle before we started dating and it appears he still had this thing 4 me. Between these years he has had 4 kids that he is raising himself (which i admire him so much for that). But im confused because he says he loves me and definately shows it when we are together, but when we are apart he doesnt text/call very much, im not saying for him to check up with me throughout the whole day, but atleast 1 call/text a day. My other issue is that i dont see him often and when i do its like for 4 hours max, which i dont get b/c he says he loves to spend time with me. I have asked him why this happens this way and he says we will work on it, but nothin yet. Please help me im feeling kind of hurt.