I have been with my boyfriend for 1 +1/2 years. When we first got together the sex wasnt great - in frequent and we just didnt quite click. We got on really well though so I put this to the back of my mind. We were only having sex every 2 weeks from the beginning however he complained he was fat so I put it down to that too.... feeling uncomfortable with himself. I have tried a few times to speak to him about this but he gets extremely angy and violent shouting at me that im only interested in sex and why do I always go on about it....I have stupidly bought a house with him and also loaned him a large amount of money so please dont advise i leave him. He doesnt go out and works days - he is defo at work.... I honestly dont think he is cheating on me due to time not naivity. Please can anyone suggest what the problem may be.... Im atractive - size 10 long hair so dont see that as the issue.... does anyone any answers that may make me feel better about myself? Not feeling very desired at the moment or attractive....We now go between 4/6 weeks and i cant say i even want it any more i feel that bad..... just want some answers.... thanks