I have been with my guy for over 10 years now, he was my highschool sweetheart and I just knew from the moment that I saw him that we were soul mates. Everything started off great, we were very passionate with eachother. We have been through quite a bit together good and bad. I love him and do not want to leave him. I keep hoping things will get better. For about 4 years now I have been having issues with the passion slowly decreasing. I have tried everything from playing hard to get to actually talking to him about what the problem really is. I have done a lot of research about this topic, and to be honest i was really embarressed with talking to someone about this. I have decided that I need to take a stand and change my life for the better. Please help if you can, in great need of guidance. Bettie