I am 47 years old and have started going through the monopause,the biggest problem i have so far is that my moods are totally irrational and scare me as they are affecting me in my work place and the relationships I have built up with my work colleagues and bosses over the years. I always want to lash out and say things to be nasty no matter who the person is. My husband doesn't understand and I feel he is scared of me too.I want to pack up and move on but I know this would solve not hing