My husband and I have been married for 6 yrs. When we were just dating I use to find pages of women stashed all over the house and even a dvd taken out of the case and screwd to the top of a closet. We have a good sex life, but he gets all wierd when I mention watching porn. He is the only man I have been with so he says it's that he doesn't want me looking at another man. He gets very upset when I ask what the big deal is about watching a man and woman together, he quickly switches the conversation and accuses me of wanting another man. Just recently we have watched a lesbian porn together. He's not very open at all about sex and he won't talk about sex in front of people. I'm afraid he may be Bi because he is very homophobic about guys. It's like he gets angry and disgusted by even talking about it. i don't know what to think esp. since last week he asked me to finger him and he likes a vibrator barely in him. Any advice would be great help. I'm confused and worried about what to do.