I am a 26 year old female that has a stable relationship with a man twice my age. We have been together for almost 3 years. He is a very active person. He exercises almost every day, he's also a yoga instructor and does martial arts. In the sports part I find it difficult to keep up with, but when it comes to having sex, I almost have to rape him. I feel very depressed because I found out that he prefers to watch porn on his computer, rather than having sex with me. I am an attractive women, and very full of energy, so I don't know if he is just not into me.
I really need good advice, I truly love this man; but I also have needs. We have been arguing about it, he says that he doesn't know what is going on. I feel very frustrated, and sad at the same time. HELP!!!