Last night I noticed what i think is my urethra to be really swollen and red. I'm not sure if it is my urethra because it's basically right before my vaginal opening, almost inside. There's no other spot for my urethra to be though. It's really swelled and red, only a little bit of pain. My boyfriend was fingering me last night but we've done that many times before and it's never happened. So I guess my questions are, is that my urethra? It's almost in my vagina, when it looks normal there's a bunch of skin (or tissue maybe?) around it. And why is it this red and swollen? Could it have gotten torn from my boyfriend last night and will it heal okay?