I am a 32 year old female who has extensive experience in all sorts of relationships. I am no expert but man can I shed some light on a lot of the subjects here on the site. First of all relationships aren't going to always be great times and great sex......there are going to be times when the going gets rough and if the feelings that you have for this person are true then you wont be coming to web sites like this one for help. We all have our own opinions as to what is going on and we all want to help you but truthfully we can't. We are simply going to drive you insane with our opinions. I don't know everything but what I do know is even at 32 I have been married twice and I have a 14 year old daughter. We are all going to make mistakes. We just need to sit back think and stay rational. Common sense. Watch the behavior patterns if your gut is telling you something by god you better listen. Our gut feelings are 98 percent correct. I hope this has helped some ppl..