i had sex with a lady 5 nights ago in the dark. the next day i saw sore on her lips and rash in her laps. i wash my genital with too much antiseptic which burns me the next day. I had a brief kiss with her which did last last for 30 seconds and i think i didn't get her saliva. How long can i wait to go for herpes and STI test? I used condom but am sacred