HI,
I'VE BEEN READING A LOT OF ANSWERS ABOUT THIS KIND OF QUESTIONS. BUT IT DOESNT FIT WITH WHATS HAPPENING TO ME.
MY BF JUST ARRIVED FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY JUST TO BE WITH ME. AFTER A YEAR OF BEING APART WE ARE NOW LIVIGN TOGETHER IN ANOTHER COUNTRY. THE FIRST DAY HE ARRIVED WE DIDNT EVEN HAVE SEX, I WAS PRACTICALY BEGGING SO THAT HE WOULD HAVE, BUT HE KEPT SAYING HE WAS TIRED, SO I SAID OK, IT WAS A LONG TRIP ETC ETC....THE FIRST MONTH WE USED TO FIGHT A LOT OVER THIS, CAUSE HE NEVER WANTED TO HAVE SEX, AND I COULDNT UNDERSTAND WHY WOULD HE COME FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY TO BE WITH ME, AND NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX. HE IS A VERY LOVING PERSON, ATENTIVE.....BUT HE JUST DOESNT WANT TO HAVE SEX. WE ARE LIVIGN TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 4 MONTHS NOW. AND SOME TIMES HE HAVE SEX EVEN TWISE A DAY, BUT THEN WE CAN GO ON FOR 2 WEEKS AND NOT HAVE ANY.I TALKED TO HIM AND TRIED TO GET WHATEVER PROBLEM HE HAS, BUT HE SAYS HE THERE IS NOTHING, THAT HE JUST DOESNT FEEL LIKE HAVING.I TRIED PUTTING A SEXY NIGHT GOWND AND YEAH IT WORKED THAT NIGHT, BUT THEN ITS BEEN MORE THAN A WEEK SINCE THEN. ITS SOOOO CONFUSING CAUSE EVERYTHING IS SOOOO PERFECT, THE WAY WE ARE LIVIGN TOGETHER, EVERYTHING IS SUPER GOOD, HE IS NOT DEPRESSED (OR HE REALLY KNOWS HOW TO HIDE IT). PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO. HE IS 21 YEARS OLD, AND I HATE THE FACT THAT I WANT SEX ALL THE TIME, AND HE DOESNT....