I have been married to my husband now for a month and 1/2.
Some background on my husband: he was a bit of a "playboy" and had plenty of BEAUTIFUL women like tall blonde fake boob women. He has depression prblems and alcohol problems.
I am brunnette and was 108 when we met. Yes I have gained some weight but im not fat. Still fairly skinny. I died my hair for him blonde. Yes I do need to get back in shape but i've been so busy taking care of him and school. (we are both college students)
However, recently, he has been saying everyday I hate my life, hate being married, your getting fat and im not attracted, i dont want to go out with you, im not the samefun guy everyone loved, etc... everything he says basically hurts me. Well normally its a "mood" and its over, but recently like these past two weeks, he's mentioned divorce. I love him and know he loves me. And know he couldnt be without me. But what do I do? Will getting back to 108 really fix it all? How do I get him to love me again or act like he doesnt hate me???? I dont want us to end.