I've been married for almost a year but I've lived with him for over two. When we were first dating i saw pictures of naked girls on his computer but it didn't bother me because thats what alot of guys do. Multiple times after we got married I found that he was still downloading LOTS of porn and it made me upset and he told me that the pictures didn't mean anything and that he would delete them, which he always did. Recently I went to look for a file on his external hard-drive and found literally hundreds of thousands of pictures and videos of naked women including lots of non-nude pictures of many of my girlfriends (Very clearly an addict) It makes me feel so insecure about myself even though I'm perfectly thin and in the times before I resorted to extreme exercise and starving myself to get a body like the girls he looks at but its never enough. We've all but lost the spice in our sex life because he never makes any attempt to be romantic and I feel like I'm almost being cheated on considering my husband spend hours a day online. I want to go to him yet again and tell him how i feel but thats never stopped him before. Do I just "get over it"? I don't think this is worth getting a divorce over, we havn't even been married a year. Lastly we are very young, I'm 19 and he's 21 but were both very mature and are about to buy a house.