Hi, me and my boyfriend have been trying to have a bby, i was suppost to get my period on july.19.2012 but i did not get it untill july.29.2012, at first i started spottin and afterwards i started bleeding a little but it was this light reddish color, after wards i started getting blood cloths but no sharp pains is this normal? Another thing is that i have tender breasts and my tummy was bloaded and my lower back had been hurting often, and i had been eatin more than usual, i never took the home pregnancy test so i don't really know if i was/am pregnant or not. What can this mean?