My husband and I have been married for a little over a year and a half and her just told me recently that he no longer desires me sexually. He says that he still finds me attractive. We are only 23 and 25. We talked it over and decided that we need to go marriage counselling. But, when I ask him if there is anything I can do to make him want me, he says he doesn't know. I don't know what to do, I love him so much and I don't want to lose him. I also asked him if he thought it could be a low sex drive and he said no cause he still self pleasures. I'm lost, and don't know what to do.