today I was in a sexual encounter with a female who has vaginal herpes, she did not tell me until after(crazy I know) im losing my mind. I fingered her, received oral, and slapped my penis on her skin of vagina. She claims she hasn't had an outbreak in 4 months but when I was fingering her and touching her on top of her panties she said shes very sensitive and seemed like it hurt, she also stopped me...I am extremely concerned. I did not have intercourse with her or oral on her vagina...I only touched it with my fingers and lightly once with my penis quickly. How much of a risk am I. If she had an outbreak and if she didn't, because obviously I cant believe a word she says. She did say she was on medication though. I am so freakin scared!!! HELP ME PLEASE