I know this sounds like he is not into me. but that is not the case. He enjoys shopping, going to the beach, dining out , he is with me alot everyday and we really enjoy each others company. He just wont be intimate, never comes to me for affection like kissing, even holding me let alone being in bed together. I feel unattactive and i get upset with him quite often as to why he doesn't enjoy this part of our relationship . I feel more like he is a freind to me than a lover. And also, i am going without this intamacy in my life and i don't want to look elsewhere for it. I love him dearly and would like to make things work. He claims he has never been intimate with any woman. He has told me when we met he was a virgin still. Its like he wants to keep it that way for some reason. We have been dating over a year and have not been intimate with each other even though we have been to some pretty quaint places alone together.