A guy i have been talking to for a few months now said that he wanted to have unprotected sex, but i refused due to my paranoia of diseases and plus I like to be safe. He is in the Army and swear he is clean. A friend of mine told me that the only thing that the military check for is HIV/AIDS, but he isn't in so how would he know right? I need a more reliable source and advice from someone that knows for sure. Not that i want to do anything unprotected, but i'm just curious to know.