I'm new here and this is probably an odd question to ask for someone who just arrived in this site, but I am really worried. I usually don't talk openly about my sex life but I feel like this is the best way I can explain why I'm worried. I'm going to try to be as descriptive as possible, and I hope I don't overwhelm any of you.
So only last month, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and all of the sex that has happened were with protection. I don't remember when I had my period on February, however the vague memory of having a really light menstruation happened earlier in the month before I even had any sexual intercourse whatsoever. Now, it's March and I'm freaking out. Since I don't exactly know when I last bled, it's kind of hard to figure out when I will be having my period this month.
3 days ago (I think), I have been thinking about the possibility that my period might be coming soon but instead I'm getting these slimy, brown, blood discharges that don't really come out unless I pee or if I get sexually aroused, get wet and I urinate, then I would see the blood discharges. Since it's not like a constant flow of blood like an actual period, I can go out without even wearing a pad or worry about staining my underwear with blood.
I talked to my boyfriend about it and we are worried because we don't really know what's happening since I don't have a lot of sexual experiences to know what's going on with me. For a while we pondered on the thought that I might be pregnant, but there's a little doubt in that because we did it with protection and the condom did not break whatsoever.
At first I thought it was kind of just the beginning of my period but for the next two days, it still kept doing that. Yesterday, my boyfriend fingered me and I didn't feel any pain whatsoever but when he took his finger out, it was a lot of bright blood. We were so happy for a second there thinking that I was actually on my period that's why it got really bloody and so I was overjoyed and kind of glad that i am actually bleeding, as weird as that sounds.
The blood gushed out a good amount for a while, it was a strong flow after he did what he did. I didn't feel any pain inside while he was doing it that felt like a scrape or a scratch, and so I actually thought that he kind of triggered something inside that caused all the menstrual bleeding to finally happen. I got home and cleaned up, unfortunately, after I did, I found out that the bleeding was temporary and that it only looked like I was constantly bleeding because I haven't cleaned up.
So now, I'm back to the blood discharge circus, except that the blood is somewhat lighter and brighter than the darker brown blood discharges that I had. Every once in a while, I find slimy bright blood discharges on the tissue after I urinate.
I haven't had any symptoms of me PMSing or me being in pain whatsoever inside of my vagina that I know of. Anyone have answers or have any related experience? I am extremely worried and I would like to know what's going on.