Everyone's story I have read is my story too, just a different health problem. I need some help. I have a 16 year old son every time he comes home from his dads happy my husband his step father rides him about stuff that don't really mater until the happiness runs out of him. I can't stand to see this happen I tell him to quit or to shut up and he gets mad at me. Tells me I am not a good mom. I have only been with him 3 years. My son loves him but does not understand why he does this to him. No one can be happy about anything in our house unless it is good medical news. I don't know what to do. I will not choose him over my son. We had nothing to do with him getting sick. Please help with any advise. Thank you.