I saw a topic like this in 2009, but I'm afraid I the advice there didn't help. So I hope you all won't mind if I ask to see if there are any new ideas.
The build-up is great. I can go on with the build-up for more than an hour if I pace myself. But when I reach orgasm, I feel absolutely nothing. It doesn't feel good. It doesn't feel bad. I feel absolutely nothing. My legs are a bit shaky and my clitoris is really sensitive. But nothing. I've tried being relaxed and taking it slow, the usual advice. But I still get absolutely nothing out of it, other than becoming less aroused. Does anyone know a remedy for this? Could it be some of the medications I'm taking? Or could it just be something with me?