On the day that this happen I was playing with his parts & asked him if he wants to make love. He said he doesn't want it. Then on the night before we go bed I was waiting for him to finish brushing his teeth & I suddenly I heard noise from a bathroom but the noise is someone is watching a porne video. So in my mind my husband is jerking off bec he done this before & I dont mind it. So since i am curiuos so i went to the bathroom & check on him. l caught him jerking off & he close the door after that but I still insist opening the door again. He got so really upset about it when i caught him. He told me that I am invading his privacy. I asked him why he rather jerk off than have sex with me which I asked before I caught him. He said that I will not understand if he tell me the reason.
For me it's ok to jerk off instead of having another affair. But what i dont understand is why he is upset when i caught him & he even told me that he jerk off while i'm not around.