Hello:
I just realized again over the weekend how wonderful it is to agree with your partner on most matters. I am getting married in September and was at his parents house over the weekend and his sister said that she wanted to leave her two year old at her in-laws for the wedding. Me and m fiance automatically agreed and I said that it was his decision. I realized that we do that a lot. We always have to make tough decisions as a couple, but the decisions on who makes them does not have to be tough. It is so helpful to understand where your partner is coming from and why and come up with different examples and discuss what and how you would deal with them so when you do have children it will be easier.
I agree with you Alison that when you have kids things change and sometimes even before when you meet the right one. We had a discussion on stem cell research the same day and agreed and most importantly, you need to learn how to agree to disagree.
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Hello:
I just realized again over the weekend how wonderful it is to agree with your partner on most matters. I am getting married in September and was at his parents house over the weekend and his sister said that she wanted to leave her two year old at her in-laws for the wedding. Me and m fiance automatically agreed and I said that it was his decision. I realized that we do that a lot. We always have to make tough decisions as a couple, but the decisions on who makes them does not have to be tough. It is so helpful to understand where your partner is coming from and why and come up with different examples and discuss what and how you would deal with them so when you do have children it will be easier.
I agree with you Alison that when you have kids things change and sometimes even before when you meet the right one. We had a discussion on stem cell research the same day and agreed and most importantly, you need to learn how to agree to disagree.
Jennifer Baxt
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