I also thank you for putting your feelings and experiences into words. I am sure it is easy for people to judge you without having any idea what you have gone through or what you are dealing with on a given day. We all have choices to make in our lives and they are rarely simple black-and-white choices. Yours are extremely complicated, trying to balance a marriage, a disease, two children and the financial well-being of the family. You are clearly smart, extremely thoughtful and very loving. I cannot imagine how difficult it has been for you coming to the conclusion that you would seek companionship outside of marriage. And I see why you feel you can't talk about it with family or friends.
Do you have therapy for yourself when you need it? Someone to whom you can spill, be completely honest, and use as a sounding board?
I'm very glad you found our site. Welcome, and I look forward to reading more from you. And thank you again for writing.
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Timeforme,
I also thank you for putting your feelings and experiences into words. I am sure it is easy for people to judge you without having any idea what you have gone through or what you are dealing with on a given day. We all have choices to make in our lives and they are rarely simple black-and-white choices. Yours are extremely complicated, trying to balance a marriage, a disease, two children and the financial well-being of the family. You are clearly smart, extremely thoughtful and very loving. I cannot imagine how difficult it has been for you coming to the conclusion that you would seek companionship outside of marriage. And I see why you feel you can't talk about it with family or friends.
Do you have therapy for yourself when you need it? Someone to whom you can spill, be completely honest, and use as a sounding board?
I'm very glad you found our site. Welcome, and I look forward to reading more from you. And thank you again for writing.
June 14, 2010 - 8:24amThis Comment
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