Good questions and suggestions from Alison. I am also curious as to whether he WANTS to have multiple orgasms or would you like him to?
Usually, when men are younger it is easier for them to have the ability to keep going after their first orgasm but as a man gets older, this gets harder to do.
Also, I think it's important to mention that orgasm and ejaculation are two different things. Yes, men will ejaculate on their first orgasm but if your boyfriend is able to keep going afterwards and does not ejaculate again, this does not mean that he can't experience an orgasm.
He can also learn to keep himself from ejaculating during the first and second orgasms and then ejaculate on the last orgasm. This does not come easy for most men but if he would like to learn then he can practice with the "start/stop technique". This involves him pulling out when he feels the sensation of an orgasm and it should be practiced daily, either with you or by masturbating.
Ask Alice explains this in greater detail and there are many sites online that will give good pointers on practicing this. http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0783.html
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Hi swethngdawn2,
Good questions and suggestions from Alison. I am also curious as to whether he WANTS to have multiple orgasms or would you like him to?
Usually, when men are younger it is easier for them to have the ability to keep going after their first orgasm but as a man gets older, this gets harder to do.
Also, I think it's important to mention that orgasm and ejaculation are two different things. Yes, men will ejaculate on their first orgasm but if your boyfriend is able to keep going afterwards and does not ejaculate again, this does not mean that he can't experience an orgasm.
He can also learn to keep himself from ejaculating during the first and second orgasms and then ejaculate on the last orgasm. This does not come easy for most men but if he would like to learn then he can practice with the "start/stop technique". This involves him pulling out when he feels the sensation of an orgasm and it should be practiced daily, either with you or by masturbating.
Ask Alice explains this in greater detail and there are many sites online that will give good pointers on practicing this. http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0783.html
Good luck to you both!
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