Thank you for sharing your personal story with EmpowHer. You have certainly come to the right place for support and assurance that your not alone.
I also wanted to share with you that there is a support group for people suffering from vulvodynia from the National Vulvodynia Association, you can find the link here http://www.nva.org/.
There is also another website I found that has support groups at http://www.vulvodyniasupport.com/.
I hope this helps you connect with others as well as Empowher. You certainly can give great insight into this issue for other woman. Keep us updated.