I can certainly relate to what you are saying. I have experienced severe and very frequent migraines the last 5-6 years (average 15 days/month). I am 50 years old. We tried everything, but what has helped the most is bioidentical estrogen cream used three times daily. I don't eliminate all the headaches, but at least I have part of my life back! I still have 3-5 migraine days per month, and my periods come every two weeks now, but very light, so I hope I'm nearing the end - I'm living for menopause and the end of my migraines! I wish you the best - hang in there!