I read part of his Toddler book, and enjoyed most of it. I have to say, I had trouble talking like a cavewoman to my caveman-like toddler, although I agreed in principle that very upset kiddos want you to empathize with their dilemma at the same amount of exasperation as they are feeling.
I did not read the Baby book, but what I have found useful for my son may be what you are referring to in his theory of the 4th trimester. From Day 1 and to present (he is 22 months old), when he is most upset, and in the middle of the night, the ONE thing we can count on soothing him (after all other possibilities have been ruled-out), is to simulate the womb with a "schoo-schoo-schoo" sound, very deep and soft, swaying back and forth with him close to me. I actually start perspiring, from his body heat and hot little head!
I know moms are very appreciative of these parenting books; we may not agree with every word or theory, but it is helpful to add a few more ideas to our bag of tricks (especially when it is late at night and you're out of ideas).
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I read part of his Toddler book, and enjoyed most of it. I have to say, I had trouble talking like a cavewoman to my caveman-like toddler, although I agreed in principle that very upset kiddos want you to empathize with their dilemma at the same amount of exasperation as they are feeling.
I did not read the Baby book, but what I have found useful for my son may be what you are referring to in his theory of the 4th trimester. From Day 1 and to present (he is 22 months old), when he is most upset, and in the middle of the night, the ONE thing we can count on soothing him (after all other possibilities have been ruled-out), is to simulate the womb with a "schoo-schoo-schoo" sound, very deep and soft, swaying back and forth with him close to me. I actually start perspiring, from his body heat and hot little head!
I know moms are very appreciative of these parenting books; we may not agree with every word or theory, but it is helpful to add a few more ideas to our bag of tricks (especially when it is late at night and you're out of ideas).
September 30, 2008 - 1:23pmThis Comment
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