I've had to deal with the divorce situation and figuring out who gets the kids on which holiday for the last 15 years. I agree with your aunt split the holidays and rotate them out each year. So if you had them for Thanksgiving this year then he has them for Christmas. Next year he gets them for Thanksgiving and you get them for Christmas - same goes for any other major holiday. This way you start a pattern for the kids and they don't have the stress about where they will be for each holiday. It's worked for us and I hope it works out for you as well.
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I've had to deal with the divorce situation and figuring out who gets the kids on which holiday for the last 15 years. I agree with your aunt split the holidays and rotate them out each year. So if you had them for Thanksgiving this year then he has them for Christmas. Next year he gets them for Thanksgiving and you get them for Christmas - same goes for any other major holiday. This way you start a pattern for the kids and they don't have the stress about where they will be for each holiday. It's worked for us and I hope it works out for you as well.
December 11, 2008 - 11:04amThis Comment
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