I actually was in a seven year relationship and went to counseling to try and figure out our differences. Well, our differences were too different. Plain and simple.
At the time we went to counseling though, they did tell us to try this method and I have to admit, it did lead to more intimacy in the relationship. It didn't last long but it did help short term. The worst problem I had was day one. The first day when sex was the last thing on my mind when I felt like I couldn't stand him. Once you pass the first time though, it became less than a chore and more romantic.
It is amazing how interesting it came be also. The men have to be more interested in cuddling though afterwards also, I think that was the best method. More intimacy for me and more sex for him. It's a good measure.
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I actually was in a seven year relationship and went to counseling to try and figure out our differences. Well, our differences were too different. Plain and simple.
At the time we went to counseling though, they did tell us to try this method and I have to admit, it did lead to more intimacy in the relationship. It didn't last long but it did help short term. The worst problem I had was day one. The first day when sex was the last thing on my mind when I felt like I couldn't stand him. Once you pass the first time though, it became less than a chore and more romantic.
It is amazing how interesting it came be also. The men have to be more interested in cuddling though afterwards also, I think that was the best method. More intimacy for me and more sex for him. It's a good measure.
November 22, 2008 - 3:00pmThis Comment
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