I DID let him control me. I was only barely nineteen when we met and he was in his mid thirties. We probably never should've gotten together, but we did. I have a long history with him and that's why it is painful to let him go.
I know that I am partly responsible for how he treats me.
I have moved on, you are right and perhaps he never has.
I would certainly trust him with my dog though. He loves her very much and would protect her from anything. I know this of him.
But he always behaves with me like we are still together and he can judge me and try to control me.
I feel sad that he is not doing much with his life. He hasn't even really worked for the last ten years, since we broke up, just a little here and there. I have a great job right now and in a funny way, I feel guilty as he was the one who taught me my trade(animation).
My fiancee is not happy with how this man treats me either, but he and I are both a bit soft and sweet with people in general....shall I say, I can be a bit of a doormat sometimes.
Thanks for all the info...I will read it carefully and write back.
This relationshio has been a part of my life since I was a teenager...I suppose that it is hard to let it go after all this time. He is not all bad...he has been good to me over the years too.....
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I DID let him control me. I was only barely nineteen when we met and he was in his mid thirties. We probably never should've gotten together, but we did. I have a long history with him and that's why it is painful to let him go.
December 12, 2008 - 10:45amI know that I am partly responsible for how he treats me.
I have moved on, you are right and perhaps he never has.
I would certainly trust him with my dog though. He loves her very much and would protect her from anything. I know this of him.
But he always behaves with me like we are still together and he can judge me and try to control me.
I feel sad that he is not doing much with his life. He hasn't even really worked for the last ten years, since we broke up, just a little here and there. I have a great job right now and in a funny way, I feel guilty as he was the one who taught me my trade(animation).
My fiancee is not happy with how this man treats me either, but he and I are both a bit soft and sweet with people in general....shall I say, I can be a bit of a doormat sometimes.
Thanks for all the info...I will read it carefully and write back.
This relationshio has been a part of my life since I was a teenager...I suppose that it is hard to let it go after all this time. He is not all bad...he has been good to me over the years too.....
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