I really understand how you feel! I can't kick myself out of my own way! But now that I have been in this wonderful change I have had to come up with new ways of living. Find new things to get me going. I enjoy writing, reading, baking, walking my dogs and spending time with my family. I now set little goals to get me through the day. I start my day like this. My hubby brings me a cup of tea and sets it on my night stand. When I wake it is there to drink. I say my prays, drink my tea and plan my day. Then I feed the dogs, make my breakfast. Time for a reward because I got out of bed. I play on the computer for 30 min. Time to clean house or pay bills or what ever task that needs to be done. It is complete, reward! I write or read. I build in rewards into my day that is how I do it. I also pray a lot. Sex takes time. I really don't care about it. My hubby enjoys it so I have learned how to enjoy it again. Make a game out or it. Take time, talk,go slow. Get some of those special jells. Play. Don't make it a job or a task. Your man needs you. Teach him what you want and need. Life is what you make it. Find the good in what you are doing. Woman in their 50s are great! I am loving my new life! My kids are moving on with their lives, as they should. My hubby and I are going to be alone in our home for the first time in 30 years! I can't wait!!!!!!
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I really understand how you feel! I can't kick myself out of my own way! But now that I have been in this wonderful change I have had to come up with new ways of living. Find new things to get me going. I enjoy writing, reading, baking, walking my dogs and spending time with my family. I now set little goals to get me through the day. I start my day like this. My hubby brings me a cup of tea and sets it on my night stand. When I wake it is there to drink. I say my prays, drink my tea and plan my day. Then I feed the dogs, make my breakfast. Time for a reward because I got out of bed. I play on the computer for 30 min. Time to clean house or pay bills or what ever task that needs to be done. It is complete, reward! I write or read. I build in rewards into my day that is how I do it. I also pray a lot. Sex takes time. I really don't care about it. My hubby enjoys it so I have learned how to enjoy it again. Make a game out or it. Take time, talk,go slow. Get some of those special jells. Play. Don't make it a job or a task. Your man needs you. Teach him what you want and need. Life is what you make it. Find the good in what you are doing. Woman in their 50s are great! I am loving my new life! My kids are moving on with their lives, as they should. My hubby and I are going to be alone in our home for the first time in 30 years! I can't wait!!!!!!
November 15, 2010 - 9:39amThis Comment
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