I can't tell you what your situation is. I am the sick one in our relationship. My husband chaffes against me and makes me worse while yelling at me to get better. I am becoming angry and bitter because he makes promises he cannot keep. He lies and tells me know what he thinks I want to hear because telling me the truth would be cruel in his mind. He goes on business trips and is extremely rude to me the entire time he is gone and quite frankly his dishonesty is literally killing me. And he does not care. My only advice is be honest about how you feel with your husband. Reflectively listen. Then together talk about unrealistic expectations on both sides. Better to leave than stay if your anger with him or his anger with you is getting in the way of recovery.
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I can't tell you what your situation is. I am the sick one in our relationship. My husband chaffes against me and makes me worse while yelling at me to get better. I am becoming angry and bitter because he makes promises he cannot keep. He lies and tells me know what he thinks I want to hear because telling me the truth would be cruel in his mind. He goes on business trips and is extremely rude to me the entire time he is gone and quite frankly his dishonesty is literally killing me. And he does not care. My only advice is be honest about how you feel with your husband. Reflectively listen. Then together talk about unrealistic expectations on both sides. Better to leave than stay if your anger with him or his anger with you is getting in the way of recovery.
October 6, 2015 - 5:20pmThis Comment
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